I once asked my dad how he never felt jealous or resentful about those of his friends and family who were leading more successful lives. And his reply has become a life philosophy for me. 

I am glad to be surrounded by people who are better than me. Now, when I have problems, I can get their superior help. Why should I feel envious? 

From the time when I first heard this, his way of thinking has been a real eye-opener for me. Now, as I have grown more mature, I realise that his ability to think this way comes from having deep intrinsic security, that originated from within himself and not from how others see him. 

What we need, first, is to build our own sense of self worth by looking within ourselves. And in the process, I am confident we will discover and imbibe my dad’s philosophy without any additional effort.